People who hate themselves arent nice to be around.

People who dont like themselves dont just treat themselves badly. They treat other people badly as well. They can sometimes be really annoying.
There is one of three things that people with low self - esteem do.
a) criticize and bully others.
b) criticize themselves.
c) show off.
( in my opinion only )



a) Criticize others.

People who dont like themselves like constantly criticize, insult and put other people down. They like to make fun of other people and call them 'names'
They will figure that if they cannot feel good about themselves, then they will make other people feel miserable too. This way, they can feel better about themselves.

One of my friends, Jackie, used to call people names such as 'fat-ass', 'pig-brain' and etc. Whenever someone made mistake, he would announce it to the whole class. Everyone disliked him.
Why did he do that? Well, later I found out that he felt inferior because he had a strict and fierce parents, he was also self - consious about his body ( he was short and fat ). So, his strategy of making himself feel better was to make fun of others.
So, next time if you meet a person like that,, dont be angry with them but feel sorry for them.

b) Criticize themselves.

Have you ever met people who keep thinking negatively about themselves ? They may say things such as, 'Nobody likes me', 'I'm fat and ugly', or ' You are more beautiful ' and etc.
They say these things because hoping you will say ' NO! you are smart. ' ' You can succeed' or ' You are handsome '. They do this because they can get reassurance from other people to make themselves feel better. After a while, they can be pretty irritating, isnt it ?

c) Showing off.

At first, those people who show off and brag about themselves may seem to have high self - esteem and confidece.
However, deep inside they dont really love themselves. They feel bad and inadequate. So, they need to show off their games, mobile phones, money and branded stuff as they can make themselves proud and feel good.

People who genuinely love themselves will not show off or brag. They just do their best and feel proud of themselves.

Do you want people to like you and respect you ? I am sure you do. Everyone does.
Here is a tip : respect, admire and like/love yourself first. When you respect yourself, others will respect you. We teach people to treat us by the way how we treat ourselves.