NO Shouting.

Once a Professor asked his students, ''Why do we shout in anger ? "Why do people shout to each other when they are upset ?''

The students thought for a while, one of them said, ''We lose our calm and we shout for that''

''But why shout when the people is just right beside you ?'' asked the Professor.

''Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice ? Why do you shout to people when you are angry ?''

The students gave some answers but none satisfied the Professor. Finally he explained. ''When two people are angrying to each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance, they must shout to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.''

Then the Professor asked, ''What happen when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...''

The Professor continued, ''When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love.

Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That's how close two people are when they love each other.''

Adapted from Stars Newspaper.

So, when you argue, don't let your heart get distanct, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come one day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.